Sunday September 6th 2020: Read Br Michael’s Gospel Reflection The 23rd Sunday in Ordinary Time
Forgiveness
When we look back at history or indeed at the news any evening, we can quickly see that our world both ancient and modern is marked, even scarred because of war and conflict. Sadly, many still believe that might is right and attack is the best and first line of defence. Conflict however is not limited to the global stage. In our homes, families, workplaces and yes, even our local parish community there is conflict because of arguments, misunderstandings and anger. Conflict is not new, in fact it is very human and natural and if dealt with properly, it can even be healthy. The worst thing that we can do is to ignore it. In today’s gospel Jesus tells us not to avoid or cover up conflict but rather to deal with it head on!
From the gospel today, it would seem that even first followers of Jesus had major issues with conflict and forgiveness. The gospel ends with these words from Jesus, ‘when two or three gather in my name, I am there with them.’ We also know that when two or three people get together, there is also the possibility of conflict and misunderstanding! So as usual, rather than simply avoid this, Jesus deals with it honestly and openly. He says to those listening and more importantly to us today; ‘If your brother or sister does something wrong, go and have it out with them, between your two selves.’ As we all know from experience, this is far easier said than done! There are the choices that we are called to make when there is conflict and misunderstanding; we can ignore it, react negatively or we can try our best to follow the words and example of Jesus. Can we, could we do this; are we able to speak to the other person honestly and peacefully? If they offer me their apology can I freely accept it? If I have hurt them in any way, can I humbly offer my hand and apology in the hope they too will we be warmly received?
It is worth noting that the example Jesus offers is not about a strangers or someone we don’t know. The people that we need to apologise most to are often the ones closet to us; our family and friends; those we love. It is because of what we say and do that we hurt and harm others. It is also through what we decide to say and do afterwards that will help and heal others. The choice is ours.
It would be wonderful if there was no conflict and we all got along with each other. How much happier we would all be. But neither we, our families nor the church are like that. Even the most loving of families experience conflict and arguments.
When we say the ‘Our Father,’ we pray, forgive us as we forgive others. If we ask and look for forgiveness, then as followers of Jesus, we are challenged to offer forgiveness and at least try to be peacemakers. Again, this is easier said than done, but it is worth the effort for everyone’s sake and health.
The small prayer before the gospel today reminds us of the importance of our witness to and attempts at reconciliation; God in Christ was reconciling the world, we have been entrusted with the news that we are reconciled.
Mahatma Ghandi said, ‘be the change you want to see in the world.’ If I want the world to be more peaceful, I am called to be a person of peace. If I would like to experience more forgiveness, then I firstly, I am called to be a person who offers forgiveness.
– Br Michael Moore OMI
| Matthew 18:15-20 © |
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If your brother listens to you, you have won back your brother
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